I found Ruffles and Truffles to be pricey for an outfit the child wears once. I got my daughter's dress at JCPennys at the mall. Also try Second Time Around on Main St. They have nice used apparel including formal wear for children at execellent prices. By the way, there's nothing wrong with baptism as a infant or child, it is your announcement to God that you intend to bring your child up in the ways of the Lord. I do recommend baptism when one is old enough to announce one's own choice to follow Christ. I was baptized as an infant and again when I was 21. My sons also were baptized on thier own free will when they were teenagers and it was meaningful to them and beautiful. Take care.