I think the whole point of abstinance is self control and no need for the education of premarital or preadult sex.

When we as people say hey lets show young persons who are to young to have sex how to we are releasing things they are not ready for.

It comes down to immediate gratification or entitlement.

Suppose a man or women has sex with a 15 year old everyone says gross or statutory rape.

But yet it was alright to teach the 15 year old how to protect one self to have safe sex.

Why are we teaching children how to have safe sex at such early ages when we declare them as minors or not old enough to make decisions about it.

How do our children find out about sex at ags 8,9 etc...why not try to stop them from finding out things inappropriate for them.

Know that would be hard and upset people with censorship.

Lets just give them safe alternitives.

That doesnt make sense.

Just so I understand Connie, you have a 13 year old daughter and you want her to learn about safe sex and what it is. You teach her when you have sex please protect yourself. She says ok.

1 week later a 19 year old boy stops by your not there has sex with you daughter.

You really have no right to be upset with the way you think.

If you dont want to keep your child sheltered from things they should not know about, dont be upset when those issues come knocking.