Thank you Andy. I appreciate it. Kim, AMEN to that! I still have some years before becoming a grandma for my kids are 10, 8, and 6, but I totally agree with you there. I will not raise my grandchildren. I will help babysit so they can work, or take the occasional weekend to spend time with my grandchild. Only under no circumstances will I raise my grandchild. My mom didn't do it for me, and I respect that out of her. For if she did I wouldn't be the mom I am today.