Once again Judy, I will say that I was not bashing you. I never told you to get a job. I asked you, if you had a job...I understand if you can't work and I understand if you do work. I know people from both sides of the equation...I just asked you a simple question. I was just wondering why you were counting on the money so much on a certain time/date. I just knew that if you were working (and you are) that you wouldn't be concerned about getting it on a certain date. You cleared that up. I never bashed you ever. I think you might be sensitive about the whole situation. By the way, I am a father and I do have 3 children. Fortunately, I have a wonderful wife too...We have been married for 5 years and we have many friends who are single parents. Some work and some do not. We do not bash either side. I think maybe you need to stop reading through the lines so much and stop being so sensitve. I agree with the other posters...No one insulted you....And the one posting that supposedly supported you made no sense and had nothing to do with your original posting about the government holding on to your money and your desperate need for the interest. It was explained to you that it costs money to do electronic transactions from your ex's account and to send checks (cost of the check and postage). That's what the money is used for. Once again, I'm sorry for your situation but you need to get a life.