ya know rufus , i agree with you . good point. everyone is out to save us from ourselves and tell us what is right and what is good for us. what happened to our freedoms. why should we be so careful as not to offend anyone. everyone needs to get a little tougher skin and dont boohoo, you offended me. thanks for saving me jane and tilly. and amesh thank you for telling me what i should do to myself . i guess now i should become a herion addict because it is my right to harm myself. thanks for pointing that out to me as i am too dumb to think for myself. rufus right on !!!