Gary F. Binder

To my husband, Gary F. Binder, on the 13th anniversary of his passing, June 9, 2004.

If you have not figured it out yet, life is not fair. You plan to find your one and only, your forever love and plan to spend your whole life together growing old, going through every step of aging. You have plans and they do not end for a long time.

Then reality steps in and shatters all your dreams. What are you going to do with the balance of your life? Remember that you have 34 years of memories to live with. I am growing old, when now is the time that I need that shoulder to lean on, that shoulder to cry on, the arms to hold me in time of sadness and sorrow, or just to give me a little of your strength. You have no one to depend on, but yourself.

The loneliness is one of the hardest. Sure you have a million friends around who love you but you’re still alone, there is no way to explain it till you have lived through it.

Well guess what, you are missed and you are still in our hearts and loved by all who knew you.

Please give Dad a hug from all of us.

Yesterday, today and tomorrow,

Always Yours, Sandy