I just want to clarify some things. I never said that being an unwed mother was bad...as you could see from my last post, i said that she had the other 2 WITHIN wedlock.

I, myself, had my 3 kids at ages, 18, 20, and 28. I was unwed when I was 18, but then got married shortly after. I am not saying i've never had to ask for help. I have. But never for cash, and never for long. I have always kept a job, and my husband works so much i only see him 2 days per week. (Sometimes less.)

I just wanted to share with everyone about the special cases I have seen, that have to do with the conversation on this board.