I don't have to think long and hard about "it", I'm pretty sure it does't take a genius to figure out what you are trying to say. I'm not ashamed of my post, because I'm not the only one who called you out on your statements. I do however, think it's nice that in your own way, you apologized to Tilly. Just know, that it's not only our job to report child abuse, it's the law, and illegal if we don't. Unfortunately, the few times I have reported it, with substantial evidence, I was later informed that the reports were unfounded. So what then? It's a shame that these things go on in some households, and frustrating to no extent that not much can be done about it. I take back nothing of what I said on my post. The sole purpose I attacked you, was because the things you said, and the manner in which you said them, were rude and hurtful, and many other readers seemed to agree with me.