Melissa, you really should read Susan's posting (Society Cat policy correct) in the Letters to the Editor.

Rules/Policies are put into place for a reason.

I have adopted from a rescue organization this year that I've been in contact with for the last 6 yrs. I've seen what ignorant/irresponsible owners have put these poor animals through and what the rescue has devoted themselves to, to ensure good health and homes for these dogs. After taking in these dogs and showing them the way life's suppose to be, they have every right to be picky when finding them homes. I had to get underground fencing! I personally didn't mind; I wanted them to know this dog's safety is just as important as my children's - and I'm not sacrificing anything.

There are a million things that can happen to pets when left unattended - why would you want to risk any of it? It's not worth the pain.

I am sorry for your loss and agree that there should be some justice if your cat was poisoned but, you have to assume some of the responsibility for letting the cat out of your sight - even if it were for just a split second.