Perhaps someone can solve this puzzling situation for me. I am wondering which public restroom I should use nowadays. I was comfortable going to use the facilities that had “men” on the door. But with males that express a proclivity for the very same sex I am and able to use the same bathroom I find it uncomfortable. I assume this would be similar to myself choosing to use the restroom with the door that has "women" on it, but would any woman inside have the same uncomfortable feeling. May some learned member of the staff or educated reader advise me in this situation as what is the best thing to do and where I go.