My entire family uses Diggers services and trust me, he is a good person and they are a truly wonderful family. I know that during grieving everyone is more sensitive and perhaps it may have been a little inappropriate but these cards are meant to be funny and not offensive in any nature. I think sometimes people make something out of nothing.... lighten up. Life needs a lil humor. By the way, my grandma died of cancer and the first time I saw the card was at her funeral. She would have laughed had she seen it. It made me smile, so to each his own.