On Jan. 28, I had the opportunity — perhaps I should say honor — of attending two retirement parties.

The first was a luncheon at the Cranberry Marriott for Bruce “Trip” McMillan, who after 37 years retired as a professional from the Boy Scouts of America. The second, a gala, was for Robert Smith, who, after 30-plus years in education, retired as president of Slippery Rock University.

These two gentlemen did not know each other and, to the best of my knowledge, their paths never crossed professionally or personally. What is unique is that their life’s story line and the foundational premise each lived every day are so surprisingly similar.

McMillan and Smith both grew up in what we would consider normal circumstances in states other than Pennsylvania. They both did well in school and, while good students, did not earn any overly outstanding accolades.

“Trip” and Bob attended college, graduated, married the love of his life and had a family. Each began a career in his chosen field — “Trip,” Scouting, Bob, education.

Early on, they were identified as men who truly were passionate about their chosen career. And, while they enjoyed it, each progressed up the career ladder, which required that each pick up his family and move to a new location.

Each time their committed partners acquiesced to their personal ambitions to promote their spouse’s career.

The threads woven throughout each man’s journey were the comments related by family, colleagues, subordinates and the general public about the integrity, honesty and commitment to right-living displayed throughout their respective careers. Comments like “he can be trusted,” “lives his beliefs,” “loves his job,” “always helps others,” “loves his family,” “possesses and lives a strong spiritual belief” resonated throughout both events.

In both instances, the theme of personal, relational and spiritual harmony, while maintaining a life-balance, portrayed each man as someone who, while occupying positions of authority, never saw himself as a power broker. The authority they possessed was authentic, not titled; therefore, each earned the respect of all whom they encountered.

Consequently, that respect was returned by each employee, family member and acquaintance by always seeking to do their best.

You see, working with them, having them as family members and friends, brought out the best in us, and we tried to emulate their strength of character in our own lives.

Interestingly enough, a couple of local and federal politicians had proclamations read in their respective chambers for both retirees. While flowery and complimentary, it sure would be great if our politicians would stop mouthing the words and begin living the message.

Congratulations are in order to Bruce McMillan and Robert Smith. Although not Butler-born, both certainly enriched our community and those they served and educated, far beyond what any local or federal politician ever will achieve.